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The mission of Cake from the very beginning has been to help the world to have more fun sex. We've tackled that from supplements to toys to lubricants to condoms. And now we’re doing it with ED meds.
Most men hit a certain age and it’s harder to have fun sex because your anatomy isn’t at 100% anymore (even if your libido is). So it was kind of a no-brainer to help guys’ bodies work the way that it used to, or in some cases, better.
Erectile dysfunction is when you have trouble getting an erection, or for a lot of men, maintaining one. It affects more than half of men at some point, typically starting around age 42.
At least, it used to. With the increase in people taking antidepressants, we’re starting to see a lot of younger guys take ED meds to combat the sexual side effects.
And that was a big consideration in how we came up with our formula. Because most SSRIs are taken daily, we made our ED medication to be taken on demand so you don’t have to take as many medications as often.
Oh, yeah. I'll talk about anything. There's different stages and severities of erectile dysfunction. The most severe is when you're not able to get or maintain an erection whatsoever.
So far, I haven’t had that degree of ED, but sometimes I have problems staying hard during a longer session. I might need to pause, lose my erection, and have trouble getting it back.
I’m 38 now, and my expectation is that by the time I’m 42, I might need to take meds every time I have sex.
So, before I started taking them, I had never had sex for more than… I’ll be generous to myself and say 30 minutes. The first time I took the medication, I had sex for four hours. I literally did not know that I could do that.
But I think a lot of people think that you take the medication and you're hard nonstop for hours.
By that I mean they work really well while you want to have sex, but not when you don’t. In that four-hour session, for example, I got aroused, I got hard, and we had sex for 20 minutes. We took a break to get water, I went soft. We went back to bed, I picked up where we left off.
The other piece that's interesting is that the meds last in your system for 72 hours. One morning I woke up forgetting I had taken ED meds the night before. I looked down and thought, oh, this is fun. Because it lasts such a long time, you can get multiple ‘uses’ out of the medication.
For one, they have such a high concentration of active ingredients. Especially if you are prescribed extra strength, they are unbelievably effective. The most common review we get from patients is “I’ve tried everything, and Cake works best for me.”
They’re also a compound formula — two ingredients working together. We start with Sildenafil, which is the active ingredient of Viagra. It's famous for getting you hard very fast, but it wears off nearly as fast. Which is why we pair it with Tadalafil, the active ingredient in Cialis. Tadalafil takes a long time to kick in, but once it does, it stays in your system for 72 hours.
The process is 100% online.
You just answer a few questions about your health. A doctor then reviews your answers, and you either get the A-okay and your prescription gets shipped to you the following week, or you get some additional clarifying questions, or the doctor may determine you're not the best fit for Cake ED meds and direct you elsewhere.
Discretion is our number one priority, seriously. Not only does the order ship in a plain brown box, the sender name is abbreviated so you can’t tell who it’s from. (Same goes for your bank or credit card statement.)
Plus, the 6-packs are perforated so you can tear off a single square, pop it in your pocket, and take it with you without anyone realizing.
I would say that if you are prescribed ED meds and they're safe for your body and you want to try them, just try them.
Just — you cannot take these with recreational drugs. Speaking as a gay man that’s lived in NY, LA, and San Francisco you really can’t take ED medications with poppers, cocaine, ketamine, etc. ED Meds are not meant to be a party drug. I really want people to know that.
But on the fun side, I remember being 20 and getting erections so hard they almost hurt. With ED meds, it goes back to that.
When I first got prescribed I was like, “Ok, I'm hard.” But after like three hours, it hits you: “Oh, I’m ROCK hard. STILL.” And that’s a super fun thing.